hey people ,
everyone here has had a bad relationship at one point in there life and if they havent then they are well due.
come on people bear your soul
im here to sooth your pain

bethuk xxxxxxxxx

:love: :makeout: :love: :makeout: :cry: :taunt:

Oh god, sob stories....I can see everyone crying together. hehe

Heata Kita would love this thread!

Vxn

Oh man, My last relationship ended in October and it lasted a year and a half. Some of the best and worst times of my life..

I've never been in a relationship, nor one even close to it. I'm not found pretty, or anything like that. I'm mostly ignored by guys. So when I finally swung the bat, you know, took a chance, the bat came flying right back in my face and left a boo-boo. So I told this guy over E-mail that I liked him. So he was on AIM and was talking to my friend Nicole and he said, "I'm ugly, so I have to date hot girls." and she said "Then date Mickenzie". and he said "She's not hot, she's pale, She's gothic, I mean, just look at her screen name, residntevilrain2, if that's not gothic then i don't know what is." then Nicole said, "It's from a movie". And he goes, "So, that's retarded to put as a screen name."

So, Don't I feel just damn wonderful.

^
OMG! :rant:

I so hope I never meet this ass, Kenz...Cause, seriously, I'd soo kick this punk's ass

:hug: <- For our Kenzie.

:sniff: I'm so sorry, hun...I'm literally tearing up as I write this; seriously...Be strong, Kenzie. Be strong - for you, hun.

haha, you bi*ch! Lol. Of course I'm gonna cry! Lol. I'm 100% drama queen, esp. when it comes to soulmates and sh*t like that. C'mon now man, I'm a HUGE Dotty fan. That says enough. Lol. :P

Let me tell you about my story and in the end.. you'll definitely think im an ass.. :lol:


I've had 6 girlfriends before.. Jessica.. Kathy.. Joy.. Rhea... Dina Mae and Kyla..

Jessica - I broke up with her after 3 days when we got together.. after a month we got back together again, that was summer, her parents were already planning transferring her to another school but since we got back together she talked to her parents to let her stay in our school, but after we got back together the second time.. i disappeared. She transferred to a new school and got pregnat after a year.

Kathy - She said she always had a crush on me.. she said we should be together, i said yes knowing that i don't feel anything for this girl. We broke up after a month.

Joy - my first love. I was in-love with this straight girl before i met her. we started hanging out and i learned that she fell in-love with me, i courted her and we got together after my 1 week of coursthip.. then this straight girl im still in-love with learned about our relationship and she started hanging out with me again, i got confused so i broke up with Joy. After 5 months i asked her if we coud start all over again, it was too late.. that was the afternoon of August 21, that morning she said yes to her boyfriend. i was a couple of hours late and the painful part when i was asking her back she said "I waited for 5 months Jaye, you never came back, i have a boyfriend now". It took me 2 years before i moved on.

Rhea- we met at an exclusive party.. I liked her.. she learned to like me.. i met another one.. i left her. but the girl i left her for, we never got together..

Dina Mae - My friend's ex girlfriend.. she like me, im attracted to her.. my friend hated me and Dina me cheated on me after a week. Never saw her again.

Kyla - we met on a bar, my friends friend. She liked me, I like her. caught her cheating on me, i broke up with her.


So there you have it.. Sometimes i feel like i stopped loving after Joy.. it makes me think that i don't know how love feels after my first love and i think i don't like committment.. SOrry this is too long.. :P I'm an ass I know.. :)

:hug: <- For Jaye.

We love you...And we want you to be loved. :makeout: <- Jaye and future grrlfriend.

omg you have had quite a love life and looks like you have lost friends and hope on the way. but keep ur chin up something good will happen you just have to be patient and dont give up.i guarentee there is anouther joy out there. :hug:

Noah and Allie....

Need I say more?

Oh but honestly, I don't like talking about ex's. I over analyze things and drive myself crazy. The future is the way to think!

EDIT: But I think we both know I need to take my own advice....lol

Vxn

Aww! I'm so sorry hun!!! I'm going to make Nicole wack him with my purse again! lol!

(A few years ago, that guy was making fun of Nicole and she took my purse and hit him right in the balls with it... I stopped carrying that purse after that...)

Don't worry. He's an a$$hole and he doesn't know what he's talking about. Kenz, you are gorgeous and NOT gothic!!! You aren't too pale and you ARE hot!!! Don't listen to that jerk! Trust me, when we get in high school you will have guys dropping at your feet like you're the walk of death! (sorry, i had to steal that line from you)

Kenz, you really can't let stuff like this get you down. Believe me When I was younger I had tons of guys telling me I was ugly, gothic blah blah. One day you will find someone, everyone does. I think you're great, I don't know you that well but from what I can see you're wonderful. Just give it time , don't rush into things. Focus on the good things in your life like friends, family or whatever. Eventually something good will come along when you least expect it. I know it sounds super cliche and cheesy but it IS true. Just hang in there, eventually "the universe will unfold as it should"


I just quoted Harold and Kumar :P


:)

I've been in love with a 24 year old girl (Eugenia) since I was 16/17 (she was 21/22)... we had something in 2005, but it was only a relationship through a computer because she's in another city and I couldn't travel very much at that time... she was very insecure because I was under age, but I still wanted to be with her... she kept telling me that she wanted to be with me, but she didn't like the kind of relationship that we could have. Her indecision continued for about 8 months and when she wanted to be in a serious relationship with me, I screwed it up. I practically disappeared, because I was scared to suffer again. We didn't talk to each other for 5 months, and the I sent her an e-mail asking for her forgiveness... everything was cool but just as friends, I started trying to be with someone else (who I didn't loved, but I needed to forget Eugenia), but this person made my life impossible ¬¬

Anyway... I told this other person that she could go f*ck herself, and I was alone for some months... those months I've been thinking about Eugenia, and I realized that she's the most important person in my life and I want really bad to be again with her and for the kind of things she's been telling me, she's interested in me too, but last week we went to the cinema and we chatted a lot, and I told her how important she is and she didn't seem to care... I mean, she told me she love me and she cares about me, but she says she can't be in a relationship because she always screws it up. It sounded kinda excuse for me...

I don't know.. I don't want to be with anybody else, but the person I love won't be with me =/ I can't see myself in love with another person, I'm always thinking about her and this closes me a lot of doors in my life.

Wow Eugenia is exactly like me.. i think.. i don't like relationships coz i always tend to screw it up. well.. circumstances makes me screw things up that is..

i forgot to mention my other ex.. Mai.. i broke up with her after a week of getting together.. we were sooo good as friends.. but when we got together... everything sucked.. at least for me.. she was a great girlfriend.. but i screwed things up. after we broke up we stayed friends, but since we're just friends i started flirting with other women which meant nothing to me. we're just having fun. SO mai's friends thought i wasn't treating her right so.. i told mai we shouldn't talk anymore or be friends anymore.. at that time it was the right thing to do, Mai told me that if i think that she doesn't like what we have even if we're just friends then i am wrong, she was perfectly happy with what we have. no relationship.. just having fun.. and i was too blind to see that.

if there are some relationship i regret ever screwing up.. that would be my first love Joy and Mai.

:hug: <- For Jaye.


'Nuff Said! :kick:

y did i post this topic it makes me sad any way a problem shared is a problem halfed

keep postin guyz
xxxx

You know it just sucks. Jane Austin, author of Pride and Prejudice and many other romance books, never found love. How much would that suck? To create all these beautiful stories and never having anything that came close.

Everywhere I turn, I see adds about chemistry and questions on the side asking me if I'm single or taken. I don't think I'll ever find somone. I'm really close to giving up :(

Don't ever give up! I feel the same way sometimes ^ *hug*

thanks, I needed that, I havn't been hugged in only God knows how long *hugs back* :hug:

Don't give up. Just chill out. Love sneaks up on you, just ask my best friends. Both of them had had their equal share of heartache. One had the lots of sh*t relationships, the other nothing her whole life. Now they are both in loving, happy relationships. One for eighteen months, the other 2 years.

My roll call, on the other hand, is disasturous. 4 relationships, one male ex died, the other, well lets just say it wasn't my finest moment and I paid for it, one female ex has now got a baby and the other is now in a relationship with a guy. Has it hurt? Yes. Would I change any of it? Not in a second.

aww, thanks. I'm glad I have you guys, I don't know what I'd do without you guys. Seriously. There have been times where you all have gotten me through the day. So thanks BekI. :hug:

^
You always have us, Kenzie...Always and always.

Oh, and... :hug:

Who knows what evil lurks in the hearts of men?

I was a very happy person. My wonderful girlfriend and I had been dating for over a year, and so we decided to get married. There was only one little thing bothering me.... It was her pretty younger sister.

My prospective sister-in-law was twenty-two, wore very tight mini-skirts and generally was bra-less. She would regularly bend down when she was near me, and I always got more than a pleasant view of her private parts. It had to be deliberate. She never did it when she was near anyone else.

One day "little" sister called and asked me to come over to check the wedding invitations. She was alone when I arrived, and she whispered to me that she had feelings and desires for me that she couldn't overcome.

She told me that she wanted to make love to me just once before I got married and committed my life to her sister. Well, I was in total shock and couldn't say a word. She said, "I'm going upstairs to my bedroom, and if you want one last wild fling, just come up and get me."
I was stunned and frozen in shock as I watched her go up the stairs. When she reached the top she pulled off her panties and threw them down the stairs at me. I stood there for a moment, then turned and made a beeline straight to the front door. I opened the door, and headed straight towards my car.
Lo! Behold! My entire future family was standing outside, all clapping! With tears in his eyes, my future father-in-law hugged me and said, "We are very happy that you have passed our little test.....we couldn't ask for a better man for our daughter. Welcome to the family."

And the moral of this story is...
Always keep your condoms in the car.

I've yet to been a relationship

*shakes head* shame lol

I Have been with only one serious relationship..
but I have had things here and there.

Minx

Not missin' out on too much...

It'll happen when it's all right, as cliché as it sounds. It's worth the wait and when it's not then you'll experience all that tears and smiles and all that crap...lol

Vxn

^^ I agree Vix - so true lol :P

psh, guys suck. you can't live with them and you can't live without them - it's so true. and it really bites coz the ones you like you have to fight for and the ones who you don't like are crazy bout you and wont leave you the f*ck alone lol.

My drama at the moment is I'm kinda with this guy and he's an awesome mate and everything but I'm so into his mate it's driving me insane, I was with his mate before I was with him and I knw he likes me too but yea that's as far as it's got and I don't know what to do lol. I can't handle the drama, waaaay too much for me, and now Im going on holiday with them in a couple of weeks :blink: both of them..... them.... and me..... *runs away screaming*

you don't need them Child...
Theres plenty of other things you could do with your time.

Minx

A few days ago I got asked out by this guy who's a soon-to-be freshemn in college (live less than 30 min away from a college that he's going to, which begs the question, what kind of person chooses to go to a college not only in-state but in their hometown? :blink: ) , but he's such a pig that I told him to f-ck off. Now everyone's telling me that I should have gone with him b/c he's older and he's hot (I don't think he's hot, I think he's sorta ugly, but all my girl friends think he's hot :brow: ) but he's a total jackass and now he won't leave me alone and they won't get off my case about this and.... :cuss: I mean, is it too much to ask for them to let me pick out who I become involved with????

^you know I use to teach my sis how to kick guys in the balls :lol: you should try that LMAO that will teach hen !!!!
just kiding !!!but he sounds like jerk anyway !!so don't let your friends tell you who to date or not :cuss: thats completly up to you,so if you don't like hen !!! tell hen again and again to frakk off and soon or later he will leave you alone !!! if he dosen't well KICK HEN you know where :lol:

Are you serious man, where you gonna do it? :brow:

LMAO :lol: no kenzie that never happen to me !!! :lol: I will never do that :D it was on myspace and a friend of mine email it to me ,just a lesson for the guys :angel:

Joy was the first person to greet me on my birthday... she never forgets all this years.. *sigh*

:hug: <- For Jaye.

With love...

Ha me..relationship? has never happend, guys dont really like me dunno why.

Yes they do, and you know it...You silly. :blush:

:hug: <- For Melissa!!

After we had our " Moving up assembly" At school today. My ex-girlfriend gave me the biggest hug ever! I was afraid that I wasn't going to be able to see her for the rest of the school year because shes a freshman and I'm a Senior.

That made my day..

Minx

are you graduating this year chelsea?

Yup!!! :D

But I'm not aloud to walk. :(

Its all good though, I'm not tripin'.

Minx

yaaaaay!!! I'm so happy for you! As long as you get your diploma, thats the only thing that matters :)